Month: February 2008

Just a random note for me and you to know…

I have been studying up on marital/pre-marital (and family) relationships since working at LifeWay. I won’t go into details on what I’ve learned b/c I can’t remember it all. Not the point.

Part of a male of the general population’s job is to appeal to the female: physically, mentally, spiritually, (characteristically and personality) wise. I’ll be brief when I say that growing up, well…I wasn’t Brad Pitt.

Regardless, we’ll fast-forward to now time. I briefly had a chat with a fellow female classmate from High School who was a little higher up in the “ranks” of HS (special clicks [groups], cheerleading, beta club, fbla, etc. [IDK for sure what she did but you get the idea]). Anyway, whether you know it already, it dawned on me that a not-so-good-looking guy can have a legit relationship with a “high-class” girl, in one of many ways, being conversation.

Not that I want to date her (given the chance, I would), but that just proved my personal study that you just need to be able to condone a decent conversation with a female of choice to be able to strike further relations.

The only things left in my study that I doubt and haven’t figured out are two things: 1 being what I call stubbornness (for lack of a better word) of the female and 2 being a female already in a relationship (a new one, engaged, married, recently divorced, etc.).
Both of these “prohibitors”, to me, seem to be the only things that would keep a single male from having a relationship with the female of choice (who is in one [or both] of these situations).
However, more barriers exist that prevent relationships, but these are all that I can think of at the level of knowledge I have. Now that I know this information WORKS, I can put it to use in the future when the Lord brings about the right person for me.

Thanks for reading this suppose to be quick but turned out long blog. J

Andrew

Well, once again we had another visit from some people from Heritage Baptist Church. This time is was the Music Minister and I suppose a deacon (not sure). Last time it was the Pastor. Anyway, so we made small talk (like the last visit) and this time I was offered a possible job (with decent money) as the pianist (‘maybe’ the organist)…and I don’t need a degree to do it! So I played an anthem piece (Go in My Father’s Name) for the MM and he seemed to like it…I couldn’t really tell. But I’m sure he was slightly impressed that I offered to play for him (since professionally you should offer a sample [interview] of your services or capabilities). I also told him I like to conduct/lead music, too. So he offered to help me out. I though he was a little rough or mean looking when I first saw him but he’s pretty cool. 🙂

So originally I told my folks I wasn’t going to have any musical connections to the church we choose to go to, however if it be the Lord’s will, I suppose I will work for/with the church for whatever reasons the Lord may have.

Well I got the AbRail in mail yesterday but haven’t opened it yet. Sigh. Hopefully it’ll work…to some extent.